How To Get A Girl At A Party

 

How To Get A Girl At A Party

 

You’re at a party surrounded by smoking hot girls. You’re lonely, single, and all alone. No fear though, because tonight is the night you’re going to take one home with you. You’re just hanging out in the corner with your friends trying to build up enough courage to go and talk to one. After a few drinks your feeling confident and ready to make your move. You break away from your friends, your target is set. There she is. The girl of your dreams standing just 50 feet away from you talking to her friends. Oh boy is she looking good tonight, what you would do for a chance with her.

You find yourself walking toward her. You have a million things going through your head at the same time. With each step closer you take, you can feel your palms getting sweaty. The knots in your stomach are getting worse. This isn’t going to stop you though. You have her in your cross hairs and you’re getting ready to drop the bombs on this hottie. 10 feet away, you’re getting ready to pull the trigger and say something to her when all of sudden she looks up, smiles, and makes eye contact. The only thing you can hear inside of your head is ABORT ABORT ABORT! And that’s just what you do. You put your head down, pull a complete 90 and high tail it back to home base. Mission failed. Looks like it’s just you and the same old playboy magazine tonight.

Alright, alright, I may have got a little carried away there, but this is the reality of what happens to most guys when they go to approach a girl. If only they knew how to get a girl at party. Shit, most guys can’t get girls anywhere, let alone a party. If this is you, then no worries my friend. This section of my website is dedicated to all of the many guys out there that can’t get girls. If you follow my advice, you will be a ladies’ man in no time. It’s just a matter of understanding how the female mind works and understanding what attracts girls. Once you know how they operate, you will know how to push all of the right buttons that will make the girls want you.

 

Don’t be intimidated by her

 

For those of you that follow my website already, this will be a quick refresher. For those of you who are new to my website, pay attention to this. Before I begin telling you how to get a girl at a party I want to get you in the right mindset to get a girl period.

The number one reason why most guys fail at approaching girls is because they are intimidated of them. Like they’re going to bite you or something.

Hey guys, it’s a girl, not a freaking rattlesnake.

 Why are you so scared of her? I mean seriously, you are a man; it’s time to start acting like one. The worst that is going to happen when you approach a girl is she might tell you no. She may say something like get the hell away from me loser if she’s a bitch but still is that really so bad. Oh, I see you’re afraid to get your feelings hurt. Come on, you got to get with the program guys.

If you want to be a man that girls want, you have to have balls.

Guys with balls aren’t scared of being called a mean name. They aren’t scared of being rejected. And they sure as hell aren’t intimidated by a hot girl.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying ,“Oh, it’s more scared of you than your scared of it.”

Well, the same holds true with girls. Instead of being scared, they’re intimidated of you. A guy who is capable of walking up to a hot girl and start talking to her like it ain’t nothing is also capable of crushing her self esteem if he should want and girls know this.

All girls are very self conscious of themselves. The hotter they are the more self conscious they are as a general rule. I know, to us this makes no sense but girls are wired completely backwards compared to us. Alright that’s enough of this tangent I’m on. I’ll cover more on this topic in another article. Let’s get back to the point of how to get a girl at a party.

 

Is a party a good spot to get a girl?

 

There is a lot of controversy that comes with the idea of getting girls at a party. Some people will tell you parties are a horrible spot to get girls because there are too many other guys to compete with.

Others will say it’s a great spot because the girls are usually drinking and naturally turned on at parties.

Well, I’m not going to lecture you on this subject but just let me say before we move on that if a girl is obviously drunk, don’t take advantage of her. This is morally wrong and could potentially end up being legally wrong.

So in my opinion is a party a good spot to get a girl….YES!

This is so because of the atmosphere. There is music playing, games going on, and everybody is relaxed. Once you become a master of attracting girls you won’t have to have this environment to your advantage. You will be able to attract girls everywhere you go. For the time being though, getting a girl at a party is going to be your best starting point.

Girls won’t come to parties by themselves. They usually have their friends with them. This works out great for you because they now feel comfortable and safe. Therefore their defensive shield is down to guys pushing their emotional buttons.

Now we have everything ready to go. The girls are comfortable. Your comfortable, and most importantly you are no longer intimidated by her. You are now ready to make your move…..you playboy you!

Making The move on her

 

So just how do you make a move on her? Well, you don’t. You see, it’s called attracting girls, not throwing yourself at them like some needy desperate little boy. Once you learn all the secrets to attracting them, they will come to you. At that point you will be able to get any girl at any party. Shoot, you will be able to get any girl anywhere for that matter.

I know I know, I haven’t really got into how you attract girls yet. For the sake of the length of this article I will give you the basic rules to follow in order to get girls. For more in depth information on all of these, check out the “How to attract girls” section of this website. As always all information is 100% free and through each and every article you will be one step closer to truly being a ladies’ man.

 

Top Ten Rules to getting a girl at a party

 

1.      Have the right attitude

 

Be the cool, slightly cocky, and confident guy that doesn’t get completely wasted. You must have class if you want girls to see you as a true ladies man.

 

2.      Keep the conversation rolling

 

 Girls love it when a guy can keep the conversation rolling and actually keep them interested. Talking politics probably isn’t going to do it guys. Tell some exciting stories and make sure you listen when she tells hers.

 

3.       Dress different

 

If you want to be noticed you must stand out. If all your friends are wearing Old Navy stuff, then a plain white t-shirt will do you wonders. Girls love guys that don’t care what others think.

 

4.      Don’t hit on everything with tits

 

 You must have some class. If you throw yourself at every girl at the party nobody will want you. People don’t want what anybody can get. Girls want what they can’t have. Make yourself a challenge.

 

5.      Make yourself a challenge

 

Just like rule #4, if you’re easy, nobody will want you. Make these girls work for your attention. After all, you don’t just give your time to any ole girl.

 

6.      Body language

 

For guys, you body language screams leader or pansy. No matter what keep your head up. Stand up tall and straight…without looking like a damn pole. If you have good body language you already have one foot in the door.

 

7.      Be honest

 

A big turn on for ladies is an honest man. Don’t lie about your life and accomplishments and you will be good to go.

 

8.      Tease her

 

Girls love to be played with….come on now, get your mind out of the gutter, that comes later. I’m talking about in a fun playful way. Don’t get carried away though because you could insult her if you’re not careful.

 

9.     Show social value

 

Girls love guys who are well liked. Show her you are a well liked person by moving around the party talking to everyone.

 

10.  Just relax

Most importantly, just relax and have fun. If you follow the other rules and relax to, you are already a few steps ahead of any other guy.

 

Well ladies and gentlemen, there you have it. How to get a girl at a party. I hope this article helps the way you handle yourself a parties a little bit. After all, attracting girls is supposed to be fun. Kind of like a game. Hey, you win some, you lose some. Either way no guy could get with any girl he wanted. Hell, some girls aren’t even worth getting with.

So, if you get rejected, just keep your head up and find a new one. There is millions of smoking hot single girls to choose from, don’t get yourself beat down over one rejection.

 

As always thanks for reading

Jason West